Sunday, July 21, 2019

The Nanny Granny


Many years ago, my youngest daughter’s nanny robbed her and she was terrified to have another nanny watch her children again … she called me in tears and asked if I could become “the nanny” … what are you going to do … I said yes … being a “nanny granny” was not a preferred role … as such I had to obey rules .. a grandma does not have such restrictions … they can fly in and out are not bound by such … unless you are dealing with a bat shit crazy parent that is …

I have to say, I enjoyed the time but it was taxing on me … young children are made for young parents not grandparents … I tired to get the boys out of the house as much as I could… I hate it when kids are shut INS… like a younger version nursing home!!!  You have to get out see and do things … enjoy the fresh air … one of my fav things to do with the boys was go to parks … go on walks … play in the yard do arts and crafts … science projects …play super hero games (I had my own super hero cape) … there was a local petting zoo as well … But the place we went to the most was the library, we were always at the library either in their own home town, or the one in the town where I lived.  

By going to my local library so often,  I started to developed friendships there and eventually started to volunteer at the library … I met so many kids … funny and extremely bright and talented kids … one even talked to me about how he could hack into any computer system … another who told me how to pick stocks … another who would write poetry for me … and the pre-teen and teenagers would tell me what books to read … this is where I learned about the Hunger Games book, when it first came out and told my daughter about it … all done by recommendations of children …


Then I started to ask them about iPads, iPods and using a computer and they taught me!  I would ask them about texting and Facebook as well … now this was 10 years ago and I was not at all savvy in such things …

Finally I said … let’s do a Podcast from the library with the  “the nanny granny" (that be me)  the library staff loved the idea … we called it “kick the can” and it was taped in the library … one podcast is posted the below … I loved all of those kids … I keep track of many of them … young professionals now! 

I just love being with kids ... they are so fresh and creative and bright ... (the below podcast is from 2009 so some of the "talk will be dated")




No Happily Ever After

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